Comments on: Has anyone here used a home paternity test ?

By: David D

David D — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:29:09 +0000

I have done the at home paternity test. I did not need her signature. They performed the test without a problem.

I caution you: be prepared for the results emotionally. They may rock you to the core. I was not ready to recieve the results and am in emotional turmoil now. Sometimes it is better not knowing. If you truly love your wife talk with her first about it and explain in a nonhostile way that you have some concerns and regardless of the results you will be there for your child and her. Say that you are doing this for the baby’s health just in case you need to donate an organ to them some day. Eggshells, you will be walking on eggshells with this one.

If I just would have looked at bloodtype I would have realized that it was impossible to be my kid, so I suggest possibly starting with that and then moving to DNA if the blood type is plausible given your bloodtype.

But to answer your question, you can do it in such a way where she would never know.

Best of luck to you! I hope you get the answer that you are looking for and will work out best for everyone involved.

By: Ritz

Ritz — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:29:09 +0000

Theirs no such thing as a home paternity test. Now it’s called DNA. They can swap the child’s mouth and test it against yours to see for sure. But I think your really jumping the gun her. Don’t be so pissed off that you resort to this. Love your child!

By: TSW

TSW — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 14:29:09 +0000

Do you really want to know.
because once you know. You will Never be the same.
If It’s not yours It will lead to a divorce.
And even though you are not the father.
WILL be court ordered to pay Child support.
because you took on the responsibility from the start
and the child took on your mane.

Don’t do it if you want to hold you family together.

I regret MY decision do make the same mistake.