How do you convince a man who doesn’t know u to take a DNA test to find out if he is your father?

4 Comments

1. Joe F says:

   November 18, 2009 at 10:43 am

   Call him up and say "Hey my mama is a ho and she says she slept with you and a bunch of other guys,can you take a DNA test and see if you are my daddy?"
   That’s about the best I can offer.It is a shame your mom put you through this.You have my sympathy.
2. Cayleygirl♥ says:

   November 18, 2009 at 10:43 am

   Tell him you would like to know the truth.It’s not like he will have to pay child support. Explain to him that this is important to you ,and you would like to know.Good Luck!
3. Liz says:

   November 18, 2009 at 10:43 am

   You’d probably be better off having your mother ask first, if possible. If you have his email or regular address, you can send him a serious email explaining your situation and why you want him to take it. Understand that he might not be your father, and this asking a pretty big thing of him at this point. It means that he might have to start paying child support, and possibly meet you and have a relationship.

   If he doesn’t respond, you can have the court order him to take it. You’d probably want to have your mother support you and prove that they had a relationship around the time of your conception.
4. Tiffany says:

   November 18, 2009 at 10:43 am

   Personally, I’d say
   "Well hello sir, you look a lot like a man that I could call daddy! Want to come to the doctors with me, maybe have a little blood work done..?"
   And this would be the moment he nudged away hesitantly.