Comments on: Paternity test… have to go to court? http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm Tue, 13 Sep 2011 18:34:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: In God We Trust http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3634 In God We Trust Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:07:26 +0000 http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm#comment-3634 As long as YOU know that he is the father, you are already on the 'straight and narrow.' If I were you, I would quietly go to legal aid and get their help for FREE. Do not mention anything about living with the boyfriend or you won't get the help that you need, because they just will refuse your much needed help. If the legal aid people ask for a telephone number, be sure and NOT give them your telephone number. Some fool will certainly make the mistake of calling your home and get your would be in-laws on the line. This I know you wouldn't want to have happen. Put God's veil of protection about you. I would suggest these scriptures as follows: What shall we then say to these things? If GOD be for us, WHO can be against us? - Romans 8:31 The Lord daily loadeth us with BENEFITS, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19 Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them. - Mark 11:24 I wish you continued success and a prosperous, happy and healthy ongoing life. Peace! As long as YOU know that he is the father, you are already on the ’straight and narrow.’ If I were you, I would quietly go to legal aid and get their help for FREE. Do not mention anything about living with the boyfriend or you won’t get the help that you need, because they just will refuse your much needed help. If the legal aid people ask for a telephone number, be sure and NOT give them your telephone number. Some fool will certainly make the mistake of calling your home and get your would be in-laws on the line. This I know you wouldn’t want to have happen.

Put God’s veil of protection about you.

I would suggest these scriptures as follows:
What shall we then say to these things? If GOD be for us, WHO can be against us? – Romans 8:31 The Lord daily loadeth us with BENEFITS, even the God of our salvation. Selah. – Psalm 68:19 Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them. – Mark 11:24 I wish you continued success and a prosperous, happy and healthy ongoing life.
Peace!

]]> By: Bernard http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3635 Bernard Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:07:26 +0000 http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm#comment-3635 Youi can go on "Whose Your Daddy" TV Show? Youi can go on "Whose Your Daddy" TV Show?

]]> By: ask a question, get an answer http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3636 ask a question, get an answer Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:07:26 +0000 http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm#comment-3636 No, the court won't set up visitation or custody arrangements unless either you or your boyfriend petitions the court and files the proper documents. I think you might have picked up the wrong papers. If all that his parents are demanding is a paternity test, then that's all the form should consist of to establish paternity. Establishing parental rights and custody is a completely separate issue. If both of you are above the age of sexual consent for your state and ESPECIALLY if you are both 18, there is NO way that, even WITHOUT a paternity test, his parents would have a chance at obtaining custody and visitation unless both you and your boyfriend were found by a child services investigation to be unfit parents. Your boyfriend's parents are bluffing you and they know it, as grandparents have no inherent rights regarding a grandchild. No, the court won’t set up visitation or custody arrangements unless either you or your boyfriend petitions the court and files the proper documents.

I think you might have picked up the wrong papers. If all that his parents are demanding is a paternity test, then that’s all the form should consist of to establish paternity. Establishing parental rights and custody is a completely separate issue.

If both of you are above the age of sexual consent for your state and ESPECIALLY if you are both 18, there is NO way that, even WITHOUT a paternity test, his parents would have a chance at obtaining custody and visitation unless both you and your boyfriend were found by a child services investigation to be unfit parents. Your boyfriend’s parents are bluffing you and they know it, as grandparents have no inherent rights regarding a grandchild.

]]> By: Douche http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3637 Douche Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:07:26 +0000 http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm#comment-3637 Go on Maury, it's free! P.S. Stop breeding like a rat. Go on Maury, it’s free!

P.S. Stop breeding like a rat.

]]> By: You asked so... http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3638 You asked so... Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:07:26 +0000 http://testyrdna.com/paternity-test-have-to-go-to-court.htm#comment-3638 You must be very young. If you can afford one, get a lawyer. Wanting a DNA is not a psychotic act, it is a concern that can be remedied by taking the test. If he's the father, what's the problem? Who filed the papers? Are you receiving public assistance? If visitation isn't an issue, go to court and tell the judge your situation. What did you tell social services so they would think this in the first place? Parentage is very important. You and your boyfriend are not married and there is nothing saying that he's the father (birth certificates don't matter, anyone can be named on them). Establishing parentage means there is a legal document naming your boyfriend as father and if something happens to your boyfriend, at least the proof is there. Had you been married before conceiving children, parentage would not be an issue. The parents sound smart and you sound very unappreciative. Stop having kids while you are living with someone else. If you cannot provide food, clothing and shelter for yourself and the existing kids, why keep having kids if you cannot afford them? Stop being irresponsible. Tell his parents you are pregnant. Be mature about this. Also, up the wedding date and go to city hall. Move out ASAP. You must be very young. If you can afford one, get a lawyer.

Wanting a DNA is not a psychotic act, it is a concern that can be remedied by taking the test. If he’s the father, what’s the problem? Who filed the papers? Are you receiving public assistance?

If visitation isn’t an issue, go to court and tell the judge your situation. What did you tell social services so they would think this in the first place?

Parentage is very important. You and your boyfriend are not married and there is nothing saying that he’s the father (birth certificates don’t matter, anyone can be named on them). Establishing parentage means there is a legal document naming your boyfriend as father and if something happens to your boyfriend, at least the proof is there. Had you been married before conceiving children, parentage would not be an issue.

The parents sound smart and you sound very unappreciative. Stop having kids while you are living with someone else. If you cannot provide food, clothing and shelter for yourself and the existing kids, why keep having kids if you cannot afford them? Stop being irresponsible.

Tell his parents you are pregnant. Be mature about this. Also, up the wedding date and go to city hall. Move out ASAP.

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