I know who my baby's dad is, but I was still legally married when I got pregnant , so the court assumes that my (legal)husband is the dad. I have been dating one person since me and my ex split up, and I haven't had sex with anyone else. (I just wanted to clear that up). I have two children from the marriage already, and my ex has not had to pay me child support. In order for child support to go into effect, my divorce has to be final. My court hearing has been set back several times for different reasons. So, I thought that if I could get a paternity test now, I could try to get my divorce final before the baby gets here so it won't have his last name, and so maybe the court will reconsider waiting until after the baby is born to take a paternity test. If anyone knows if this is possible, please let me know. Thanks!

I know who my baby's dad is, but I was still legally married when I got pregnant , so the court assumes that my (legal)husband is the dad. I have been dating one person since me and my ex split up, and I haven't had sex with anyone else. (I just wanted to clear that up). I have two children from the marriage already, and my ex has not had to pay me child support. In order for child support to go into effect, my divorce has to be final. My court hearing has been set back several times for different reasons. So, I thought that if I could get a paternity test now, I could try to get my divorce final before the baby gets here so it won't have his last name, and so maybe the court will reconsider waiting until after the baby is born to take a paternity test. If anyone knows if this is possible, please let me know. Thanks!

I posted another question about an issue that my fiancee and I are having w/ his ex-wife, but I also wanted to ask this as well. My fiancee isn't 100% sure that their two kids are his. His ex-wife absolutely refuses to allow the children to have a Paternity test done. She won't say why, but uses the children instead, she told my fiancee that if he wants to have the tests done, then he will have to tell the children 10 & 11, why he wants the test. I believe that if there's nothing to hide, then she shouldn't care if they are tested or not, considering that we're the ones who are paying for the tests. And in fact, the kids never have to know any differently if something bad does come out of the tests. He would still pay child support and buy them anything they needed, but it would allow him to get her under a little more control. He's had problems w/ her ever since they got a divorce, which was more than 8 years ago.
For the guy who said that my fiancee was a loser...well buddy, that "loser" is overseas fighting for your American Rights. As to his rights, she is a very demanding person, one that if you screw w/ her, she'll screw you 10x's worse than you did to her in the first place. He loves his children very much, but he's done allowing her to ruin his life. If by chance, and I don't want it to be, but if one of them or both aren't his, then perhaps she'll get off of her high horse and start acting like a human being to him and myself. He has no problem in paying child support because that's not the issue. The issue is her demeaning mannerisms towards my fiancee and myself. I truly believe that if her own family says that she's mean and a b*tch, then there is definitely something wrong. He's paying child support because he wants those 2 kids to have things that she can not afford to get them. She doesn't appreciate anything that he does and maybe have this test done will change her mind.