My ex (my daughters father) just ordered a DNA test to be done, which is completely fine because hes def the dad. Anyways I got a letter stating when the test is going to be held. I was very suprised to read that "Mother father and alleged child should be present at this time and day blah blah blah..." I thought that they did it at seperate times, so the mother and father dont have to see eachother? My ex and I hate eachother and I'm seriously scared to go see him face to face.. Hes never even met our daughter yet and shes almost 2 months old. Also about how long does it take to recieve the results? I dont have to sit there for a few hours and wait on the results with my ex whom i hate do i? Also the test is being done through like the state for child support purposes.