I am 22, and I have no idea who my dad is. Honestly, I really don't care anymore. I'm an adult, I went this long not knowing him, and I highly doubt I would even get along with him, given the men my mom has told me could be.
My problem is that my mom keeps calling me up, out of the blue, and telling me that she knows now. That I look just like this guy, or my eyes look like whoever. It changes almost monthly.
When I get my tax returns this year, I plan to end it once and for all, and get them all tested (5 people!)
Now, would it be morally wrong for me to also request a test on a man that died recently. His DNA has been saved, because they are still investigating his death. He is the one I most suspect to be my father.
The main reason I want to test all of them is just to make my mom stop all of this. If the dead guy is not my dad though, I'm afraid that it will make his family very angry that I am doing this... How should I go about it?